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Nancy
Manning, a long-time volunteer for Susan G. Komen for the
Cure, was diagnosed with breast cancer in December 1990.
After 17 years in remission, the cancer returned, meaning
four more months of chemotherapy and a double mastectomy.
Still in the healing process at the onset of 2009, Nancy
shares her insights with LPGA Golf Clinics for Women on
breast cancer, living life and teeing it up just for fun.
How did you feel when you first heard the diagnosis? What
was your initial reaction?
The first time I was angry that it hadn’t
been picked up sooner (the doctor had been reluctant to do a
biopsy for quite a long time). Anger changed to resolve to
do what needed to be done and get on with it. The second
time I thought “Well, here we go again – hopefully they have
made some great strides in 17 years.” Both times I was
determined to be part of the decision making process and
learn everything I needed to get through the treatment
process.
How did your family and friends react?
Both times my friends have been absolutely
wonderful…sympathetic but very supportive.
What treatment(s) did you undergo? How long were you in
treatment?
The first time…lumpectomy, node resection,
followed by 6 months of chemo therapy, 6 weeks of radiation
treatment (chemo and radiation done at the same time) and
Tamoxafin for 5 years. The second time 4 months of
chemotherapy followed by a double mastectomy. I’m still in
the healing process and on Aromasin.
What helped you
get through the treatment? What gave you strength? When was
it hardest?
My faith, a fabulous caregiver and the prayers and thoughts
of wonderful friends. The hardest part of both series of
treatments was the extreme fatigue. The second time, the
hair loss!
How long have you enjoyed the game of golf? When did you
first start playing?
I have played golf for over 40 years. You’d think I’d be
good at it by this time…but NOOO. I started playing in the
early 60’s. Women weren’t too welcome on the course at that
time, but time has changed all that.
What/who got you into golf?
My parents both played but I was more interested in team
sports until my 20’s. Then I “saw the light” and took up
the game. Never regretted it as I have met some of the
greatest people and have had the BEST times on the course.
How has your experience with breast cancer affected your
play?
The first time it made me settle down and not
concern myself with the “competition” part of the game. I
learned to just have fun. I have yet to see how this
go-around will affect it. But it can’t get any worse!
Komen for the Cure is LPGA Golf Clinics for Women's charity.
Share your thoughts on this relationship and what it means
to women who participate in the LPGA Clinics.
The support of the LPGA Golf Clinics is
invaluable, not only for the fund-raising aspect, but also
for the opportunity for women to get together and connect on
a personal level with those who have gone through it or are
currently going through treatment and are “still in the
game!”
Having survived breast cancer, what do you tell women in the
early stages who may come to you for advice/support?
Take heart in all of the advances that have
been made in treatment over the last decade. It is
definitely a mountain to climb, but never lose sight of the
fact that there is an end in sight and that there are
literally thousands of people on your side. Share your
journey with your friends – you will find that they are your
greatest source of strength and love. You become a survivor
the minute you are diagnosed...it is up to you to become a “Thriver.”
Have you participated in walks/fund-raisers for breast
cancer? If so, briefly describe your experiences and what
you got out of them.
I fully support and take part in the Komen
Race for the Cure Twin Cities held in Minneapolis each
Mothers’ Day. The sight of hundreds and hundreds of pink
hats and survivor shirts along with the participation of
thousands of friends and families is awe-inspiring. The fact
that 75% of the money raised at the race stays right here in
Minnesota (25% goes to Komen National) to support research,
education, diagnosis and treatment for Minnesota women is a
big motivator for me.
What would you most like to do in the future?
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Live to 90…and shoot my age!
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Stay involved and participate in life at every level.
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See
the headline that says “Cure for Breast Cancer Found”!
Nancy lives in Minneapolis with her two Scottish Terriers
and a great friend. She knows of no one else with cancer in
her family tree. |